Dare I Mention The C Word?

Christmas is coming

I expect many of us learned that little rhyme when we were children, which harks back to a bygone age in which Christmas was still relatively innocent, and less swamped by today’s rampant commercialism. The ha’penny referred to is in fact the old British pre-decimal halfpenny coin, which ceased to be legal tender in 1969, and the rhyme pre-dates that by centuries. As I picked up my iPad to download my digital newspaper (yes, I move with the times!) I noticed that today is the 25th November, exactly one month till Christmas, and this got me thinking about what the big day means. As I have said before, I veer towards agnosticism rather than any particular religion, but I respect the fact that this is a Christian celebration: Christ Mass, Jesus’ birthday. I also respect the fact that for those of other faiths this is probably not a day on which you celebrate, although I would imagine that it is hard to avoid if you live in a predominantly Christian country! Over the years, many traditions have developed to celebrate Christmas, both in a public sense and within families. I know that the way my parents celebrated Christmas wasn’t exactly the same as others in our village, but at its core was the same thing and there is nothing wrong with bringing a little individuality to it: what works for some may not be right for others, but the important thing is that it has its meaning for us.

The point of today’s post isn’t to look back in a haze of nostalgia, though. I want to look ahead, to what this Christmas will mean, and every succeeding Christmas. Much has been said and written in recent weeks, months and years about religion being at the root of conflicts across the world. This is terribly sad, even more so when you consider that it is nothing new: in the 2000+ years of our calendar system there has been a conflict or war with a religious element to it in around 1500 of those years, somewhere in the world. What I fear is that we are losing the ability to respect each other’s religions, cultures and traditions. I worked for twenty years in one of the most culturally diverse areas in the UK, and have been part of celebrations for other religions, such as Diwali and Eid, to name but two. What always struck me was how people of different faiths welcomed others into their celebrations, and how this engendered mutual understanding, respect and friendship. Yet somehow, the great and the good seem to think that others may be offended by these celebrations, giving rise to such lunacies as Birmingham City Council having rebranded the season some years ago as ‘Winterval,’ or the widespread use of the phrase ‘Happy Holidays’ which I think started in North America. Please correct me if I’m wrong, but I don’t think so!

Why can’t we all celebrate our cultural and religious diversity, rather than attempt to water it down to avoid offending someone, to the point at which we lose sight of the true meaning? I know that sounds ridiculously naive, given what I have just said about religion as a factor in conflicts, but I don’t really believe that the zealots who kill in the name of a religion are in any way upholding its true spirit. Nor do I accept that the more evangelical approach is necessarily right either: it can also lead to a blinkered view of religion and its place in the world, coupled with a great deal of hypocrisy.

But I digress. Is it too much to hope that those of us for whom it is part of our culture can celebrate Christmas, however we choose to do it, without having to worry what others may think, and to hope that even if it isn’t part of their tradition they feel included and able to take part? Equally, is it too much to hope that all religious and cultural celebrations can be respected and enjoyed by all? It probably is too much, but I’ll continue to live in hope. This will be my celebration for 25th December:

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I hope you can share in the spirit of this, as I would hope to share in the spirit of your celebrations, whatever they may be and whenever they take place. And I hope that your preparations will go well: you can’t be any worse off than I am, as the realisation that there is exactly a month to go is coupled with the knowledge that I haven’t even started yet!

27 thoughts on “Dare I Mention The C Word?

  1. Clive December 4, 2019 / 11:35 am

    Reblogged this on Take It Easy and commented:

    I know I said yesterday that I would be concentrating on ‘fun’ posts this month, but something was said to me that reminded me of this post, originally written on 25 November 2018. Given that we have recently had another incident in this country which was supposedly in the name of religion, what I said in this post does, I think, bear re-reading. My apologies if you have seen this before, but I think the message I gave – of tolerance of, and enjoyment in, each others’ beliefs – is too important to be ignored.

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  2. CarolCooks2 December 3, 2018 / 1:00 am

    I can now officially mention the C word and wish you a resounding Merry Christmas, Clive and extend those wishes to all and sundry however you may or may not celebrate Chrismas may you have a good one 🙂

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  3. endardoo November 29, 2018 / 7:37 pm

    Hope you enjoy it anyway ! I won’t wish you the season’s greetings just yet!

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    • Clive November 29, 2018 / 7:44 pm

      Thanks! Far too early yet, not even the right month!

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      • endardoo November 29, 2018 / 7:45 pm

        Exactly .. no C word here until December!!

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    • Clive November 28, 2018 / 9:42 am

      Absolutely. All religions have their traditions and ceremonies and we should delight in that. Thanks for running the Salon, it’s good to see numbers increasing!

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  4. Denyse Whelan November 27, 2018 / 6:35 am

    I am a fan of Merry Christmas and a Happy new Year – my traditions are based on my life growing up in Australia. Denyse #seniorsalon

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    • Clive November 27, 2018 / 8:38 am

      So am I, Denyse! I used to work with a number of Australians and know that our traditions have much in common. Thank you for reading and commenting 😊

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  5. Sue from Sizzling Towards 60 & Beyond November 27, 2018 / 6:29 am

    I totally agree, Clive. In Australia, Christmas is fast following the way of the US where we have to call it Happy Holidays for risk of offending others of different faiths. Christmas to me is a Christian tradition and there is room for all faiths to follow their traditions and special days. Thank you for writing about this.

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    • Clive November 27, 2018 / 8:36 am

      Glad you agree, Sue! Thanks for reading and commenting, much appreciated 😊

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    • Clive November 27, 2018 / 12:31 am

      Thank you, you too 😊🎄

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  6. robertawrites235681907 November 25, 2018 / 5:36 pm

    I love Christmas, Clive, and I agree wholeheartedly with you. Other people don’t have to celebrate Christmas but those that do have a right to do so and call it Christmas.

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    • Clive November 25, 2018 / 5:39 pm

      Thank you for taking the time to read and comment. We all have a right to our celebrations, and can learn a lot from sharing them with others – and by sharing in theirs. Closed minds are no use to anyone!

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    • robertawrites235681907 December 5, 2019 / 7:09 am

      I read your post again, Clive, and I still love Christmas and I share the love of it all over the place. Again, a great post.

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      • Clive December 5, 2019 / 8:16 am

        Thank you for your kind words, Robbie, and I’m glad you enjoy the celebrations too 😊

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  7. franklparker November 25, 2018 / 2:31 pm

    Excellent post, Clive. Your final sentence – tongue in cheek, I’m sure – made me chuckle. It’s the weeks of ‘preparing’ that is the worst part of the way this particular festival has been commercialised. And already the forces of capitalism are homing in on other festivals, too eg. Easter eggs gong on sale as soon as the last of the Christmas rubbish has been cleared from the shelves.

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    • Clive November 25, 2018 / 2:42 pm

      Many thanks, Frank, and I agree with you on the commercialisation: I can’t wait till Boxing Day when Creme Eggs are available again! There was a fair degree of honesty in my final sentence, though – I really haven’t done anything so far 😊

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  8. Stevie Turner November 25, 2018 / 10:26 am

    Reblogged this on Stevie Turner and commented:
    Clive from Take it Easy has written a great post here regarding celebrating Christmas. I totally agree that Christmas shouldn’t be called ‘Winterval’ or ‘Happy Holidays’ just in case it offends somebody It’s Christmas for Christ’s sake!

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