Hi! I’m Clive, I’m 70, been divorced 15 years, live on my own, and have two beautiful grown up daughters and two lovely granddaughters who are the centre of my world. I retired in September 2013 from working in the NHS, for a large mental health Trust in London. I am a Man of Kent, exiled for many years in Essex, but am content in my adopted county. I love books, both real and electronic, and listening to music – particular favourites are what might be termed folk, rock, Americana and alt-country. I also watch a lot of sport on TV, especially football and cricket, and am a long-time supporter of Dover Athletic, my home town team, and after retirement I became a season-ticket holder at my local team – Leyton Orient. Sadly, I’ve had to give that up, for health reasons, as I also did with live music events: two great disappointments for me!
I have had two periods of depression, and returned to work from the second, longer spell in July 2012. I was encouraged by my counsellor to write about my experiences and to share them in a blog, both as therapy for me but more importantly in the hope that others will find this helpful, especially if they are fellow sufferers. The fuller version of my story is in three parts, which you will find in the archive for November 2012 or by clicking on ‘My story’ in the menu at the top of the screen.
I also share random thoughts on anything else that springs to mind. And music. Lots of music!
I hope you find this interesting, helpful and maybe even amusing in places. Please drop in and say hello!
(Most recently updated on 9 October 2023)
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Glad to be blog friends Clive
And just wanted to leave a little note here on the about page
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Thank you, Yvette, and I’m glad too! 😊
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You’ve made reference to your Facebook page before, and I haven’t been able to find it. Any chance you can send me the link?
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Feel free to delete this. It was right in front of me, and I just signed up.
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Thanks for signing up. Glad you found it!
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FINALLY made time to read your About post – and jumped over to Stevie’s interview & commented there as well. So much to read, so little time in any day. ::sigh::
xx,
mgh
(Madelyn Griffith-Haynie – ADDandSoMuchMORE dot com)
ADD Coach Training Field founder; ADD Coaching co-founder
“It takes a village to educate a world!”
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Thank you, and thanks for following. To be honest I thought you already were!
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I did too. Sometimes the WordPress Gremlins “bump” blogs I’m following, so perhaps that’s what happened?
Then again, my computer has the hiccups today so perhaps, in checking, I clicked twice, unfollowing and then refollowing?
Who knows, but all’s well now – at least in that realm.
xx,
mgh
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Hi Clive! Thank you for following my blog at francesmacken.com. I look forward to reading many of your posts in the future, and I’m very pleased to make your acquaintance 😀
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Hi Frances, many thanks for following mine too. Looking forward to reading more from you too 😊
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If there were an award for most endearing blog tag line, I’d vote for you. 🙂 Enjoying your blog.
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Thank you, much appreciated!
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Hi Clive. Although I’ve seen – and liked – many of your comments on Stevie Turner’s blog, this is the first time I’ve clicked through to find out more about you, encouraged by Stevie’s generous sharing of links this morning. I enjoyed your recent post about Cat Stevens and from the above I see that we share musical taste – although you would have to add jazz to complete the list of mine.
I’m off to check out a few more of your posts now. Merry Christmas
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Hi Frank, many thanks for this, and for the Twitter follow. I’ll take a look at your blog too, but I’m afraid we’re going to have to agree to disagree on jazz – it does nothing for me! Merry Christmas to you too 😊
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Hi Clive. I got here by clicking your comment from Bernadette’s SENIOR SALON#52 (I just wanted to mention that in case you’d be curious where I found your blog.)
Anyway. I love your blog! Haha. I haven’t browsed around much yet, but I will soon. I love the whole concept behind it, and how genuine you are. Hope to see you around this blogosphere. ❤
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Hi Liz. Thanks for finding me – I’m happy for people to do that however they manage it! Thank you for your kind words and for following. I’ll reciprocate and look forward to reading your blog too.
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Clive, I applaud your effort to keep moving forward and try new things. Depression has been the greatest challenge of my life. I stand with you in supporting others through this difficult journey. Thanks for your courage to speak out.
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Thanks Ali, kind of you to say that, and thank you for following. I’ve returned the compliment. Your efforts to help others are equally admirable 😊
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Hi Clive, lovely to meet you here. Having battled my own periods of depression and anxiety I can relate. Look forward to exploring more of your blog and getting to know you. Cheers and warmest wishes from down under.
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Hi Miriam, thanks for your kind words and it’s good to meet you too! I’ll take a look at your blog too, always good to find new ones 😊
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Absolutely. You’re more than welcome Clive. Hope you’re enjoying your weekend.
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Yes thanks, almost over now but I’m retired, so it doesn’t really matter! Hope yours was good 😊
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It was, thanks. We had a local Open Cellars event so I enjoyed a bit of wine tasting. Five wineries in three hours! 🍷
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Sounds good to me! Hope you aren’t suffering a Monday morning hangover 😉
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No, we didn’t have that much! Just tastings and nibbles along the way. Lots of fun though. 🙂
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Very restrained. I’d have been legless!
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Haha Someone had to drive home! 🙂
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Fair point! Glad you had such a good time though 😊
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Thanks Clive. Now a new Monday and week starts here and the sun is shining. Hope you have a great week ahead. Nice to connect. 🙂
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Good to hear. Been raining here a lot today. I’m off to bed now, beauty sleep badly needed. Very good to have met you. Have a great day!
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Thanks for following The Immortal Jukebox. I hope you will enjoy the wide variety of music covered and some entertaining writing. I welcome comments from readers. I usually post on a weekly basis. If it has been a while since you visited come on over and see what’s new on The Jukebox! Regards and good luck with all your projects. Thom.
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Hi Clive,
We love your blog and we have an exciting project relating to it that we would love you to be part of! Could you please email hello@wetalksocial.co.uk or call us on 0113 815 2183 so we could discuss?
Look forward to hearing back from you.
Emma.
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I have nominated you for an award: http://drawingroomdays.wordpress.com/2013/07/18/i-am-feeling-most-loved/ 🙂
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Thank you so much, Karen! I’m honoured that you thought of me. I’ll post a reply soon xx
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You’re welcome 🙂 x
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Hi Clive, it’s nice to find you. Yes – sometimes friends say the most awful things, that if they heard that said to them they would definitely have a reaction. Well, you are safe here on WordPress, Clive! Many people, including myself, know what you’re talking about regarding depression. I hope you keep writing to us. I also like the references to popular songs on your blog. Blessings to you! Debb
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Hi Debb, I’m pleased you did and thanks for following my blog and saying nice things. Those are very much ex-friends now, by the way!
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Oh good! You deserve loyal and caring friends like you are to others.
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That’s so sweet of you, thank you! I like you already 🙂
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Thank you Clive – ditto! People tell me I have an uncanny ability to “read” people and sense what they’re about. In this case, it would apply to meeting people online! 🙂 I want to be a good friend to others, so I am blessed to meet others like that. (you too)
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I’d like to think you’re right, but it’s not really for me to say! I do sense a kindred spirit though 🙂
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Yay! Here’s to our “kindredness” then! 🙂
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I’d happily drink to that! Pity my medication doesn’t allow – so a virtual glass is raised to you 🙂
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I know what you mean! Ok, virtual it is!
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Agreed! And with that, as it is approaching 2am here I bid you goodnight and sweet dreams, and I look forward to seeing you again soon. 🙂
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Nighty-night!
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And that is their loss, Clive. I think whatever you choose to entitle your posts will be quite fine with me. Have a marvelous day! Clare
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Many thanks, Clare. I’d forgotten all about this – it seems so long ago now! You’ll see that I have carried on the theme – many song and film references in my titles. You have a great day too – and thank you for the wave of love you’ve shown my blog today!
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You’re so welcome, Clive. I’m happy that people like you are here to share experiences they know will help others. and, of course, share the beauty of music, too. Take care and enjoy your weekend. Hopefully, I’ll figure out something to post about in the next few days. I tend to write by the seat of my pants! Clare
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I only write and post when I feel like it – I can be erratic in my appearances! It’s a hobby, not a livelihood, so I have that luxury. Music is very important to me and features a lot in my posts – especially in the run up to Christmas, which has become a kind of theme for me. You have a lovely weekend too. Thank you for following – I’ve returned the compliment. Anyone who loves Joni Mitchell is fine by me 🙂
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When I listen to her albums, it takes me back to my college days. I thought you , a music lover, might like that post
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Mine too. Those were such good times for music. Or maybe it was the time for us? I nearly wore out my copy of ‘Blue’ while at Uni.
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I was just talking about that album yesterday with a friend who is also a music lover, like us. He really loved that album. I actually found it and was reading the notes last night.
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So many stand out tracks, it’s a musical masterpiece and has stood the test of time. I return to it often.
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It really is. I do have some favorite albums that have the grooves worn out.Blue is one of them.💽
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Hello!! I have nominated you! http://catchhappy.wordpress.com/2013/05/17/oh-happy-days/ Be Blessed and Stay Happy!!!
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A well-deserved award for you, Tiffany, you’re doing a good thing in a lovely way. It’s great to know you and your blog. Thank you so much for nominating me too, it means a lot to me xx
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Clive, how are you?
Good news, we are giving you the “BEST MOMENT AWARD“. Congratulations and enjoy the rest of the day!
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Yes me too. I like you have suffered depression in my life and worked for the NHS!! I am studying OT now! 🙂 x
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I’m pleased for you that you’re overcoming it and have found something good in your life. Hope you qualify as an OT – good ones are in short supply! Good luck! 🙂 x
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Welcome to the blog world and I hope you find it therapeutic. Wishing you the best of health 🙂
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Thank you, it’s been good to me so far! And thank you for following, I appreciate everyone’s support when they make that choice 🙂 x
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